In about 20 minutes or so I hope to meet my ex again

Kinja'd!!! "No, I don't thank you for the fish at all" (notindetroit)
10/13/2014 at 16:49 • Filed to: girlfriend probs

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Yes, the one with the severe drinking problem. The one who was raped in middle school and should know better than to surround herself with guys who more than likely have raped her (again). I haven't seen her since we broke up but I've always wanted to see how her life has been, how she's handled herself and probably a bunch of other not-healthy, stalker-ish stuff. Just a week ago (to the day exactly) I discovered her on campus again so I've been meaning to try to talk to her, and I think today is that day.

So...wish me luck?

UPDATE: Didn't get to see her at all, I guess I try next week.


DISCUSSION (16)


Kinja'd!!! bob and john > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 16:51

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Kinja'd!!! T5Killer > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 16:52

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Best of luck.


Kinja'd!!! Mercedes Streeter > bob and john
10/13/2014 at 16:53

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Kinja'd!!! 505Turbeaux > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 16:54

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just stay away unless you have anything to satisfy that isn't curiosity or sex


Kinja'd!!! ttyymmnn > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 16:54

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You're a better man than I am, Gunga Din.

Good luck.


Kinja'd!!! $kaycog > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 16:58

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Good luck. Proceed with caution.


Kinja'd!!! Eli's Got 2 > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 17:08

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That's so hard. I dunno. I just hope when you talk to her all the old feelings don't come back. I tend to stay away... Far away... from people that I know I can't resist. You know? Good luck, I guess. Let me know how it goes...


Kinja'd!!! mr2gud2u > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 17:34

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How'd it go?

I used to have a thing for self destructive girls myself


Kinja'd!!! dogisbadob > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 17:37

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Jiffy pop is ready!


Kinja'd!!! T5Killer > mr2gud2u
10/13/2014 at 17:51

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Same here. Glad I broke the cycle but I still wonder how a few are.


Kinja'd!!! desertdog5051 > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 21:52

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Do it. You know the saying. "Trick me once, shame on you. Trick me twice, shame on me".


Kinja'd!!! dogisbadob > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/13/2014 at 22:05

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so... what happened?


Kinja'd!!! JGrabowMSt > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/14/2014 at 12:59

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You paved the path once. You can't go off doing it again and again.

You can see if they've maintained the road with any conviction, but regardless of the answer, you're just taking a look.

Been in those shoes a few times. Sometimes it's better to just take the high road and look from afar. You'll get your answer, even from there.


Kinja'd!!! Mr. Ontop, No Strokes, No Smokes...Goes Fast. > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/14/2014 at 13:00

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People leave our lives for a reason. Sometimes it's best just to leave it that way.


Kinja'd!!! Conan > No, I don't thank you for the fish at all
10/14/2014 at 23:53

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Don't follow up. Be happier.


Kinja'd!!! Jhon11 > bob and john
03/20/2015 at 11:04

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Best of Luck